Tough Questions Week 6

ROUGH DRAFT:  More info Monday evening (10.14)

Is this the BIGGEST election ever?

Yes AND No.

God is sovereign and holy.
Man is limited and sinful.

Yes, the election matters and is important.
NO, the election does not matter as much as the kingdom of God.

Remember, it is not about every four years.  It is about every day!

It is not surprising that non-Christians view that the next election is the most important thing in the world.  Because they have no real future, eternal hope.

What does Jeremiah 29:4 - 14 say about how those who trust in the Lord must live?

What does Romans 13:1 - 7 say about what the government should do?

"How can they be Christians and support that?"

1.  Justified people care about justice.

2.  self-satisfying people are certain their convictions are just.

Too often, we are self-serving with our anger.

3.  Political judgments require wisdom

"Most political judgments we make depend on wisdom, not on directly applying explicit biblical principles."  (Leeman, Naselli)

How can we love church members with different politics?

1. Adjust your expectations
2. 2.  
3. Recognize what unites a church and what belongs to the domain of Christian freedom.
4. Straight line vs. Jagged line issues
5. Respect those who have a different conscience on jagged line issues.
6. Remember what is most important.

"The more a nation denies God, the less savory all our options might be."

Wisdom Conversation @ Cornerstone

More will be posted Monday afternoon00

Tough Questions Week 5

LGBTQIA2S+ Biblical Teaching Overview 

God is the Creator and Designer of human beings.
Going against God's design and plan is never fulfilling.
Our identity is found in Christ.

The book What Do I Say When...? has five chapters on sexuality identity:  sexuality, gender, homosexuality, identity, and transgenderism.  Key points from each chapter are listed at the end of this post. 

As we consider this current hot topic, we must look beyond culture or individual stories to God's Word.

Genesis 19:1 - 9 is the story of Sodom and Gomorrah.  Verses 4 and 5 say, "But before they lay down the men of the city, the men of Sodom, both young and old, all the people to the last man, surrounded the house.  And they called to Lot, "Where are the men who came to you tonight?  Bring them out to us, that we may know them." Let's look at two ways this passage can be misused.   One misuse is that every homosexual person looking to cause riots and civil unrest like these men.   omosexuality does not equal riotous behavior.   On the other side, some say Sodom and Gomorrah have absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality.   They say the sin of these cities was hospitality.  They look to Ezekiel 16:49 to prove this.  "Behold, this was the guilt of your sister Sodom:  she and her daughters  had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease but did not aid the poor and needy." Two important interpretation principles to remember when looking at this specific verse are the surrounding context and Biblical context.  The surrounding context of Ezekiel 16 is filled with abominations, idolatry, selfishness, and so much more than just hospitality.    The verse says they had pride. In the Biblical context, there are other verses about the sin of homosexuality.  

The Biblical context is looking at the Old and New Testaments.  Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13 talk about men lying with men and women lying with women.  While it is sometimes suggested that these verses are about pagan worship, not committed relationships, nothing in the context indicates this, and these are moral laws, not civil or ceremonial laws.     the New Testament passages like Romans 1:18 - 32, some explain away by making a distinction by focusing on the term "natural relations." Heterosexual men going against their natural tendency is wrong.  Homosexual men following their natural tendency is not wrong.  However, the problem is there is a difference between "natural relations" - God's created order and "human nature," which has been corrupted by sin.  The other New Testament passages containing the English word homosexual are 1 Corinthians 6:9 - 11 and 1 Timothy 1:8 - 10.  Supporters of homosexuality argue these words do not mean homosexuality as we think about it today.  In many of these and other arguments, supporters of homosexuality appear to know better than God and His Word. 

With this Biblical context and the following statement from What Do I Say When...? "No bigger lie has been told in our culture than the life that sexual freedom is the source of personal happiness and fulfillment," we looked at the following three questions.

What do you say when a family or friend says he/she is gay?
Is it o.k. to attend a loved one's gay wedding?
What is transgender?  Why is it such an issue today?

What do you say when a family member or friend says he/she is gay?
From Your Child Says, "I'm Gay" by Tim Geiger

1. Grab the ANCHOR (Isaiah 41:13)
2. You don't need to know all the answers, so watch your words (Proverbs 10:19) and pray for wisdom.
3. Acknowledge their courage to tell you.
4. Affirm your love for your child.  Your child's struggle with sexuality is primarily an issue with God and His Word.
5. Begin the dialogue.
6. Remember, you can't change people.
7. Your child doesn't need to become straight.  Your child needs to be Holy.
8. Bring others in for prayer and support.
9. You may need to set boundaries.

Is it o.k. to attend a loved one's gay wedding?

From Your Gay Child Says "I Do by Nicholas Black 

Four possible responses:

1. Cut off your child completely.
2. Embrace their homosexuality.
3. Do not attend, but stay connected.
4. Attend the wedding with grief.

"Only the last two alternatives accomplish what is true to Scripture and honoring to God."   As you think through the third and fourth responses, let's be prayerful, humble, loving, and biblical.  The booklet has a brief explanation of both of these responses.

While there are many different thoughts, opinions, and responses to this question, I want to share my answer.

I would not attend, but I would try to stay connected.

A wedding is a celebration of marriage. 
When Jesus teaches about marriage and divorce in Matthew 19, he returns to Genesis 2 and the creation of man and woman.

Now, here is an additional thought I shared in class.

Some may say that is making a bigger deal of homosexuality than other sins. 

I would say that I also would have a problem going to the wedding of a man and woman living together before marriage.  

What is transgender?  Why is it such an issue today?

Go to the Transgender section below for more about this question.

Remember, transgender does not equal intersex.

 SEXUALITY 

• God created human beings to be sexual; therefore, sexuality is good under God's design.
• God's pattern for sexuality upholds the marriage of husband and wife as the exclusive grounds for sexual activity.
• God's pattern for sexuality is freeing and tied to human flourishing.
• Rightly-ordered sexuality brings God glory.

Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?  You are not your own, for you were bought with a price.  So glorify God in your body.  (1 C  r. 6:19–20)

GENDER

• Male and female embodiment is a gift from God.
• The body reveals identity, purpose, and calling.
• "Gender" is first and foremost determined by biological sex.
• Biblical gender expression has broader contours than modern culture's tendency toward gender stereotyping.
• The logic of bodily sex difference helps explain the moral logic of biblical sexual ethics overall.

HOMOSEXUALITY

• Everywhere homosexuality is mentioned in the Bible, it is mentioned critically.
• The Bible prohibits all forms of homosexuality.
• The Bible's prohibition on homosexuality is grounded in creational reality.
• Jesus affirms the immorality of homosexuality.
• Claiming an identity at odds with Scripture is never fulfilling.
• Expect and prepare for disagreement.

IDENTITY

• The Bible provides a comprehensive and stable account of human identity.
• Biblical love does not mean affirming non-biblical identities.
• Moral relativism at the level of personal identity is unsustainable and harmful.
• The Bible provides a consistent and impartial standard for judging which identities are sinful and which are morally good.
• There are other identity-giving forces in our lives, but none as important as God.

TRANSGENDER

• Sex difference is an embodied reality.
• Sex difference is stable and unchanging.
• The transgender worldview is built on incoherent foundations and internal contradictions.
• Compassion is owed to those who are psychologically vulnerable.
• The beauty of the Christian worldview surrounding questions of transgenderism is the sufficiency of the Christian worldview.
• Intersex conditions do not disprove the gender binary.
1. Intersex conditions are medically verifiable and diagnosable, whereas claims that someone is transgender are not.
2. Intersex conditions are a recognition of a problem that exists against a typical medical standard.  These conditions actually serve to reaffirm the abiding authority of the gender binary by recognizing a deviation from it.
3. Despite ambiguities in anatomy, the majority of individuals who are intersex do not have confusion over whether they are male or female once chromosomes and other primary and secondary sex characteristics are discovered.

 ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

Podcasts

• Christians, the LGBTQ Community and the Call to Hospitality by Rosaria Butterfield -  www.crossway.org/articles/podcast-christians-the-lgbtq-community-and-the-call-to-hospitality-rosaria-butterfield/
• Making Sense of Transgenderism and the Sexual Revolution - www.crossway.org/articles/podcast-making-sense-of-transgenderism-and-the-sexual-revolution-carl-trueman/

Books

• The Gospel Comes with a House Key by Rosaria Butterfield
• Irreversible Damage by Abigail Shrier
• Strange New World:  How Thinkers and Activists Redefined Identity and Sparked the Sexual Revolution by Carl Trueman
• What Do I Say When...?  by
• What the Bible Says about Homosexuality by Kevin DeYoung

Tough Questions Week 4

40 Days of Life Prayer Vigil:

One specific opportunity to pray is the 40 Days of Life Prayer vigil.  
Trinity's days to pray are October 17th (1 pm to 7 pm) and October 25th (7 am—1 pm).  You can sign up at the church's communication center or at 40daysforlife.com/GrandRapids.  If you have any questions, ask Allison Plakmeyer.

This post contains my notes and thoughts from the Adult Christian Education class I am teaching.

Some BIG ideas to remember in thinking and talking about abortion and is this the biggest issue?

The sanctity of human life begins with God the Creator.
Scripture always prohibits the unlawful taking of human life.
Christians are called to defend the weak.

Here are some verses to read and meditate on:

Psalm 139:13-16 

Jeremiah 1:5
Proverbs 6:16 - 19

Tim Challies has an excellent resource for discussing abortion.  Here is the Powerpoint link - www.challies.com/resources/a-resource-for-discussing-abortion/

He makes the case that elective abortion is a moral wrong in three ways.  
1.  science
2.  history
3.  human rights

Today, abortion is often talked about in terms that attempt to make it positive in our current age...
body autonomy
Plan B pill
pregnant persons' rights
reproductive health
women's health issues
some have suggested using terms like "pro-logic" and "pro-sanity" instead of "pro-choice."

The Bible passages, three points from Challies' presentation, and even the abortion terms above show us the heart of the matter on both sides - control.

Pro-choice, Pro-abortion people make the argument about women's rights vs. government control.
Pro-life, Anti-abortion people make the argument about God's sovereignty vs. people's sovereignty.  This is the Christian argument for life and against abortion.  Some pro-life people would not hold to this God's sovereignty argument. 

In Contenders, arc Newman compares abortion to Molech worship (1 Kings 11).

• People trying to solve life's most pressing problems.
• Ignoring or rejecting the counsel of God's Word.
• Accepting the diabolical advice that the best solution to their problem s the death of their child.
• Having their child killed (and, in the case of abortion, dismembered)
• Incinerating their child's body.

He concludes this section by writing, "Sacrificing childretoto solve problems, in direct violation of God's command against killing innocent human beings, is the very definition of idolatry." (13)

Some do not view abortion as a sin.  In a 2019 article in the Atlantic, Jes Kast, an ordained minister in the United Church of Christ, says, " When people talk about 'Our body is a temple of God, and holy, ' I see that as I have the right to choices over my body, and the freedom to make the decisions that are right for me"  (Newman, 17)

This response to scripture is a Garden of Eden-like twisting of God's word.  God is wrong.  You know better.

In class, we discussed various arguments, with the understanding that it is the Lord who works in and changes people's hearts.  Because of this, we need to pray.

We took time in class to pray, and I want to encourage you to do so.
You can sign up to pray during the 40 Days of Life prayer vigil on October 17th or 25th at the communication center or online at 40daysforlife.com/GrandRapids. 

As you pray, please follow one of these Action Steps:

1. Alpha Grand Rapids - Join Trinity in our support of Alpha through finances and service
2. Adoption—Consider how you could be involved in adoptioorin helping others.  Reclaiming Adoption: Missional Living Through the Rediscovery of Abba Father is an excellent book on adoption.
3. Assist moms (pregnant moms, single moms, and every mom).  One argument against the pro-life movement is "You are pro-life until birth." While this is not the case, may we show the falsehood in this statement more and more?

Additional Resources:

Books

• The Story of Abortion in America 
• Marvin Olasky will be at Wisdom Conversation @ Cornerstone University 
  Christianity and American Democracy; Living as a Faithful Christian and a Good Citizen 
  Here is the recording of this event https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pM_JM-UXuFs
• What Do I Say When...?
• Contenders: A Church-Wide Strategy to Unmask Abortion, Defeat Its Advocates, Empower Christians, and Change the World - 

Podcast

• 5 Myths about Abortion - www.crossway.org/articles/5-myths-about-abortion/
• 5 Myths about the Pro-Life Movement -www.crossway.org/articles/5-myths-about-the-pro-life-movement/
• Resources Related to Abortion & The Sanctity of Life - www.crossway.org/articles/resources-related-to-abortion-and-the-sanctity-of-life/
• The Heart of the Abortion Debate - www.crossway.org/articles/podcast-the-heart-of-the-abortion-debate-scott-klusendorf/
• The Dark History of Abortion in America - www.crossway.org/articles/podcast-the-dark-history-of-abortion-in-america-leah-savas/
• The Case for Abortion and How to Refute It - www.crossway.org/articles/podcast-the-case-for-abortion-and-how-to-refute-it-scott-klusendorf/
• Roe v Wade Has Been Overturned Now What - www.crossway.org/articles/podcast-roe-v-wade-has-been-overturned-now-what-scott-klusendorf/

Tough Questions Week 3

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This Sunday's Tough Questions ACE (Adult Christian Education) class was on Doctrinal Issues.  The purpose of the class and this post is not to settle doctrinal issues.  Our goal is to clarify how to think about doctrinal issues and interact with others with differing views.

The first clarification is doctrine matters.

Three of the Urban Legends of Theology Michael Wittmer writes about are...
"It is important to believe in something and it does not matter what".
"Doctrine divides and love unites", and
"Theology puts God in a box."

Each downplays the importance of sound, biblical doctrine—doctrine that summarizes the Bible's teaching, is faithful to the Bible, and is useful for life (Jamieson).  

Titus 2:1 - 6 begins with Paul's command to Titus to teach sound doctrine (v. 1).  Paul then goes on to talk about how older men and older women are to live.  Verses 4 and 5 share what older women are teaching young women.  Then, the passage concludes with a command for younger men.  The passage that begins with Paul telling Titus to teach sound doctrine is filled with how to live.  Sound doctrine should impact how we live.

Doctrine leads to maturity and personal growth.

Ephesians 4:11 - 16 is Paul's explanation of what the apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds, and teachers do. They equip the church for ministry and for building up the church. The passage is filled with maturity and unity language.  This growth and unity involves not being "carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes."  

Doctrine leads to maturity and unity in the church.

The second clarification is that there are essential and non-essential doctrines, but this distinction does not mean what you might think it means.  In Sound Doctrine, Jamieson writes, "'Non-essential for salvation' does not mean of no importance at all." (Jamieson)  Just a reminder of the first clarification, Doctrine Matters.

Here are four basic categories of doctrinal triage:

• First-rank doctrines are essential to the gospel itself.  Historic, orthodox Christianity.
• Second-rank doctrines are urgent for the health and practice of the church, and they frequently cause Christians to separate at the level of the local church, denomination, and/or ministry.
• Third-rank doctrines are important to Christian theology but not enough to justify separation or division among Christians.
• Four-rank doctrines are unimportant to our gospel witness and ministry collaboration. (adiaphora)

 This clarification can be seen in the Paul's epistles

He writes about first-rank doctrine when he says in 1st Corinthians 15:3-4 "For I delivered to you as of first importance that what I also received:  that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the scriptures, that he was buried, that was raised on the third day in accordance with the scriptures."

In Romans 14, Galatians 3, and other passages, you read Paul's teachings about food and holy days, which are issues of stronger and weaker brothers and sisters.

On a personal note, I understand there may be differing opinions and thoughts on what is first, second, third, and fourth-rank issues.  A lesson like today's is very hard to teach because of differing views in the class.  If nothing else, I pray this topic, taught in the way it was taught, encourages people to think through what is important for salvation, church fellowship, and Christian living.

A Call for Theological Triage by Albert Mohler
Christianity and Liberalism (PDF version) by J. Gresham Machen

Tough Questions Week 2

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Week 2 of "How Do I Answer Tough Questions?  Conscience and DIscernible Issues?"  focused on "Conscience:  What is it?  Why is it important?"

HERE is the link to the lesson worksheet.  
HERE is the link to the Conscience Verses sheet.

This is why the graphic for the class is a Check Engine light.

We don't want to ignore our conscience like some might with a Check Engine light.
At the same time, there may be times when we have to get the Check Engine light recalibrated and fixed because it is not working correctly.  

The definition Naselli & Crowley give is "The conscience is your consciousness of what you believe is right or wrong." (Conscience:  What is it, How to train it, and Loving those who differ)

They go on to share three important truths about our consciences. First, "conscience produces different results for people based on different moral standards." No one's conscience is perfect.  Second, "conscience can change."  As an individual experiences life and learns, that person's conscience changes.  Finally, "conscience functions as a guide, monitor, witness, and judge."  The conscience is not Lord.

The conscience can be positive- blameless, clear, clean, pure, washed, sprinkled clean. 
The conscience can be negative - weak, wounded, defiled, encouraged to sin, evil, and seared.

 As we think about discernible issues, we must remember that "your conscience is not identical to the voice of God."  (61)

Resources

Podcast:  https://www.crossway.org/articles/podcast-mind-your-own-conscience-and-love-your-neighbor-andy-naselli-and-j-d-crowley/
Article:  12 Principles on How to Disagree with Other Christians
Article:  How Reliable Is Your Conscience?

A Prayer from Conscience (p. 116-117)

Father, we are finite and sinful people, and for a complex of reasons that you know far better than we do, we disagree with our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ on all sorts of disputable matters.

1. Would you please give us grace to welcome those who disagree with us on various disputable issues?
2. Would you please give us grace to not look down on those who are stricter than we are?
3. Would you please give us grace to not be judgmental toward those who exercise more freedom than we do?
4. Would you please give us grace to be fully convinced of our positions in our own consciences?
5. Would you please give us the grace to practice our freedoms and restrictions for your glory and to assume that other believers are doing the same?
6. Would you please give us the grace to keep disputable matters in perspective, knowing that we will all someday stand before your judgment seat?
7. Would you please give us the grace to grace to not let our freedom destroy the faith of a professing Christian who is weaker on a particular disputable matter?
8. Would you please give us grace to build each other up in righteousness, peace, and joy?
9. Would you please give us grace to not flaunt our freedom or expect others to be as strict as we are?
10. Would you please give us the grace to live according to our conscience and experience your blessing?
11. Would you please give us grace to follow the example of Christ, who put others first?
12. Would you please give use grace to bring you glory by welcoming one another as Christ has welcomed us?

Lord, we are weak and selfish.  We need so much endurance and encouragement to live with our brothers and sisters in this way of peace.  You are the God of endurance and encouragement.  Please grant us to live in such harmony with one another and in accord with Christ Jesus that together we may, with one voice, glorify you, the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.  

Amen.